Men’s Life Coaching

Do you feel unmoored, drifting through life without clarity or purpose?

The King, the Warrior, the Magician, the Lover—these archetypal modes already live within you. But they will continue to lie dormant until you to awaken them.

Do you catch glimpses of your passion and creative brilliance, only for it to slip away?

Do you find yourself trapped in endless consumption—scrolling, binging, numbing with food, alcohol, or pornography—only to feel more hollow than before?

This emptiness persists because the path to fulfillment doesn’t lie in consuming. It lies in embodiment, creation, and coming home to yourself.

"Every man is a consumer, and ought to be a producer."
—Ralph Waldo Emerson

It’s time to move beyond the restless, reactive energy of boyhood and reclaim the grounded strength of your mature masculine self. You already possess it—your task is to embody it fully.

The Warrior inside you is ready to act with courage and clarity. The King is ready to lead with wisdom, compassion, and integrity.

Are you ready to rise into claiming your own sovereignty?

Are you ready to become a leader of your own life?

"Man needs difficulties; they are necessary for health."
—Carl Jung

The time has come to stop trying to prove your worth—you already have everything that you need.

You are capable of ending the cycle of distracted consumption and regain access to your inner creator.

This is your invitation to step into truth—no more lying to yourself, no more hiding behind distractions.

This is the call to initiate the movement back to balanced manhood, back to your authentic Self.

Our Men’s Masculinity Coaching is for men ready to step into their own power, reclaim control over their lives, and embody a balanced form of masculinity that integrates both strength and compassion.

Our work will guide you toward reclaiming your sovereignty—leading your own life with clarity and purpose, and taking full responsibility for your actions and choices.

You will learn how to embody the archetype of the King—a man who leads with integrity, creates safety, makes decisions from a place of calm knowing, and encourages those around him with presence and wisdom.

We will address unintegrated emotional or psychological needs that manifest in addictive or destructive behaviors and help you gain control over your attention and energy.

Outcomes of masculinity coaching include:

  • Firm-yet-Compassionate Leadership

  • Robust Confidence

  • Overcoming Addictions

  • Emotional Mastery

  • Integration of the Shadow

  • Purpose-Driven Life

  • Healing the Masculine Wound

When you work with a men’s life coach, you will develop the tools to:

  • See yourself with clarity and chart a meaningful path forward

  • Restore your physical health and feel strong in your body

  • Lead decisively and generously with heart-centered authority

  • Recover and channel your creative energy toward meaningful work

  • Take full responsibility for your life—and become the man you are ready to be

The world needs men who live with integrity, purpose, and presence. It needs you.

What is a man, if his chief good and market of his time be but to sleep and feed? A beast, no more. Sure he that made us with such large discourse, looking before and after, gave us not that capability and god-like reason to fust in us unused.
— Hamlet Act IV, Scene iv

The Texture Method
Life Coaching in Portland, OR

If you continue to do what you’ve always done, you’ll continue to be what you’ve always been.

Every week, for as long as you choose, we will meet one-on-one for a focused 60 minute coaching session.

Your coaching sessions will be spent getting in touch with the person you want to be and the person who you are today, relative to who you want to be. Together, we will determine how to best leverage your strengths to continuously close the gaps between the two. Through this process, over time, you will become who you want to be.

We will collaborate on a change agenda that will act as your map and compass to move you ever closer to your vision. Through this agenda you will learn how to build on your strengths while reducing your gaps.

By experimenting with new behaviors, you will learn what works for you and what doesn’t. By implementing the behaviors that work, you will begin to transform. Once these worthwhile behaviors become habit, you have succeeded in becoming who you want to be.

There is no shortcut to transformative change. It is an ongoing process that requires attention and determination. Thankfully, having a dedicated life coach keeps you motivated, accountable, and appropriately challenged, and this makes you far more likely to succeed.

If it seems like that’s a lot to fit into a 60 minute coaching session once a week, we understand. That’s why all of our coaching tracks come with unlimited access to your life coach between coaching sessions. That means that any time you need a motivational boost, a question answered, a confidant’s counsel, or an ear to bend, your coach is there for you, as often as you need.

Coaching is a hugely beneficial modality for transformation, but changing behavior takes time and determination. Based on our experience with this work, we’ve come to know that transformative growth occurs with dedicated activation over a minimum of 6 months. Of course, the longer you stay at it, the more success you will find.

That said, we don’t want you to have to rely on coaching for years and years. Our intent is to help you take control of your own life. We are here to provide you with the tools and the motivation so that you can become your own coach and keep yourself on track wherever you end up going.

If you feel that you’re the type of person who could benefit from life coaching, contact us to schedule a free consultation session and start becoming the person you know you want to be:

Not local to Portland, OR? No problem. We offer online coaching services for all of our life coaching tracks. Simply fill out the contact form above and let us know you’re interested in online coaching.